We can only account for our own honesty. To second guess someone's intentions is to bypass our own acceptance or consent to what we perceive is. Interaction should never be based upon unseen contingency. Give honestly, expect no less and let it remain so.
Awareness like this becomes an exercise in understanding our personal motives and expectations, while providing a snapshot view of whether we actually take complete ownership of all of our choices. And should our own honesty be met with something less, there is no need to fall into ill-will since we owned our original position without attached qualifiers.
Awareness like this becomes an exercise in understanding our personal motives and expectations, while providing a snapshot view of whether we actually take complete ownership of all of our choices. And should our own honesty be met with something less, there is no need to fall into ill-will since we owned our original position without attached qualifiers.
No matter the fallout, if we have conducted ourselves honestly throughout, then there is no need to invite emotional turmoil but to instead practice and embrace compassion while gently setting boundaries.
- This Carman Girl
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